Resistance to Growth or Change
- New people volunteer for jobs and positions and older
members who built the church feel threatened. Often the new people bring
new ways and new ideas.
- Some think small is better. You know everyone and
everyone knows you. Individual customs and oddities are known and adjusted
to. (Ex. Newly married couple – first year is often difficult. New job –
learning the ropes and adapting)
- It is easier to speak to and relate to 50 or 60
known people. The more people there are, the harder it is to know
everyone. Often, only the name and face is known, which makes some people
feel that the church has become impersonal.
- The pastor and his wife are not as free to
fellowship and mingle.
- Old members ask themselves: “Are these new people
like us? Will they cooperate with us? Will they love us as we all love
one another? We’ve seen the church through crises and invested our time
and money in it. Will the new members do the same before seeking a voice
and a position or trying to bring about change? Most members, both new
and old don’t voice their concerns. They quietly withdraw their
participation and their finances.
How to Overcome Resistance to Growth
- Keep the Lord’s Great Commission before the members
in sermons and in frank discussions. (Matt. 28:18-20; Luke 24:46-47)
- Talk about the church’s survival. (Light removed – Revelation
2 and 3)
- Kindly expose the attitudes which hinder new folks
from integrating.
- Try to get members involved in meeting the needs of
new, unsaved people. (Marriage problems, lost jobs, fire, death, sending
cards, writing notes).
- Make the congregation aware that the pastor is the
shepherd of the entire flock.
- Some people think the pastor should think only of
them and take his time for their needs only. They bring all problems,
even small ones to the pastor.
- The pastor handles transportation, youth
activities, helping shut-ins, cleaning and working on the church
building, etc. instead of visiting the unsaved, potential members, and
having Bible studies with new converts. Delegate and explain why.
- If you don’t have people capable of helping and doing
well in public meetings, change the format of the meetings to something
they can handle. (Music, ushering, suppers, etc.)
- If you are convinced the whole community knows your
church and its beliefs well, concentrate on increasing contact with people
through community activities. (Stop-smoking clinics; parenting
conferences; sick and shut-ins; fire victims, etc. Youth can help in
aiding widows and the elderly, in clean-up projects; with school needs).
Attention! Danger! You can lose focus. Example: The Salvation Army and its
programs and clubs.